Emma Flint’s journey to embrace her abrosexual identity spanned 30 years, marked by confusion and self-doubt. Initially believing she was a lesbian, then attracted to men, then neither, Emma’s shifting feelings left her uncertain and isolated.
Abrosexuality, a term she discovered online, describes those whose sexual attraction changes frequently over time. This fluidity involves fluctuations in both whom and how strongly one is attracted.
Emma expressed relief in finally finding a community and terminology that resonated. She stressed that being abrosexual isn’t about indecision but rather a natural and ongoing evolution of identity.
Health experts explain that abrosexuality sits within a broader spectrum of sexual fluidity and invites us to expand our understanding beyond static categories like heterosexual, bisexual, or pansexual.
Emma’s story shows that growth and self-discovery are lifelong processes. She encourages others to embrace their unique path without pressure to “pick a lane” in sexuality.
